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Divorce Support for Women
A peer support community for divorced women to connect, ask questions, and find support.
Peer support, not therapy or legal advice. For women 18+.
You're not alone.
Millions of women go through divorce every year, and it is still one of the most isolating experiences there is.
Steel Magnolias is a community of women who understand it: some who have been through it, some in the middle of it now. Women to talk to, ask advice from, and lean on.
What is inside the app
What’s inside
Peer support, not therapy or legal advice. For women 18+.
01 · The Oasis
A live chatroom with other divorced women.
The room never closes. Come in whenever you need to talk.
02 · Receipts
Your private log of what happened.
Voice memos and written notes: dated, encrypted, and kept to you.
03 · Roots
A message board. Ask a question, get answers.
From women who’ve been through courts, co-parenting, and rebuilding, sorted by what helped.
04 · Gardens
Smaller group chats.
Join one or start your own: by topic, by place, or with the friends you make here.
05 · Meadows
Live audio rooms.
Come in listening; raise a hand when you want the floor.
Today
Send a messageI’ve never told anyone any of this before.
RECORDING1:47
Transcribing your voice memo…
Recording stopped · 1:47
Tuesday’s pickup
HAPPENED TODAY, 6:12 PM
He was forty minutes late again and didn’t text.
I didn’t say anything when he got there. Just noted the time.
Small thing. But it’s the fourth time this month.
Saved
Co-parenting & parallel parenting
Asked this
How did you explain the new schedule to the kids?
@porch_light_paulaWe made a picture calendar, so it’s Dad’s week and Mom’s week. It took the blame out of it for them.
Write an answer…We made a picture calendar, so it’s Dad’s week and Mom’s week. It took the blame out of it for them.
Name your gardenSunday Night Drop-offs
What’s it for? (optional)For the Sunday-night dread before Monday drop-off. Say hi, vent, whatever.
CreateSunday Night Drop-offs
First Weekend Alone
Live · 17 here
Speaking
IIris · HostFFern
Listening · 15
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👏💛🌸🙌
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01 · The Oasis
A live chatroom with other divorced women.
The room never closes. Come in whenever you need to talk.
Today
Send a messageI’ve never told anyone any of this before.
02 · Receipts
Your private log of what happened.
Voice memos and written notes: dated, encrypted, and kept to you.
RECORDING1:47
Transcribing your voice memo…
Recording stopped · 1:47
Tuesday’s pickup
HAPPENED TODAY, 6:12 PM
He was forty minutes late again and didn’t text.
I didn’t say anything when he got there. Just noted the time.
Small thing. But it’s the fourth time this month.
Saved
03 · Roots
A message board. Ask a question, get answers.
From women who’ve been through courts, co-parenting, and rebuilding, sorted by what helped.
Co-parenting & parallel parenting
Asked this
How did you explain the new schedule to the kids?
@porch_light_paulaWe made a picture calendar, so it’s Dad’s week and Mom’s week. It took the blame out of it for them.
Write an answer…We made a picture calendar, so it’s Dad’s week and Mom’s week. It took the blame out of it for them.
04 · Gardens
Smaller group chats.
Join one or start your own: by topic, by place, or with the friends you make here.
Name your gardenSunday Night Drop-offs
What’s it for? (optional)For the Sunday-night dread before Monday drop-off. Say hi, vent, whatever.
CreateSunday Night Drop-offs
05 · Meadows
Live audio rooms.
Come in listening; raise a hand when you want the floor.
First Weekend Alone
Live · 17 here
Speaking
IIris · HostFFern
Listening · 15
CloverMarigoldWrenDahliaJuniperPoppyLaurelPrimroseTansyZinniaAsterCamellia+3
👏💛🌸🙌
💛Wren👏Clover🌸Marigold🙌Fern
Simple to start. No rush.
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Find your people
Drop into the Oasis, ask a question on Roots, or join a Garden that fits where you are.
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Lean on it, anytime
Message privately, write down what's happening, and come back whenever you need to.
For women going through a divorce, or rebuilding after one, who want somewhere private to talk, ask questions, and feel supported. You're in the right place.
Not therapyNot legal adviceNot another social feedNo ads, ever
Built for privacy and safety.
In crisis?
Crisis support is one tap away, free, whether or not you're a member. If you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number.
See crisis resourcesYour handle, not your name
Other members see the handle you pick, never your real name or photo. Your email stays private with us and is never shown.
Encrypted Receipts
Your private log is encrypted and kept to you. It's never shared with the community.
No ads, no data selling
No advertising, no ad trackers, and we never sell your data.
You're in control
Request-only messages, block, and report keep every conversation on your terms.
Start free. Stay if it helps.
Seven days free. Then $59.99 for your first year, then $129 a year. Cancel anytime. Reading and posting on Roots, and the crisis lines, are always free.
Membership · Launch price
7 days freethen $59.99 your first year
then $129 a year after
or $14.99 monthly
then $129 a year after
or $14.99 monthly
Launch price for our first 500 members.
- The Oasis, Gardens & Meadows: the full live community
- Unlimited encrypted Receipts
- Private direct messages
- Crisis support, always free
- Cancel anytime
Billed through your App Store. Renews automatically unless you cancel at least 24 hours before the period ends. On Android, your launch code gives three months free while we finish the matching first-year offer.